A big question is always “Who pays?”. For my thoughts on this, please see one of my earlier blog posts: http://sittinginatree.com/to-pay-or-not-to-pay/
Are there any topics that are taboo to discuss on a first date? Some might answer: “Yes, do NOT discuss religion, politics or past relationships on a first date”. There are many reasons why this is the general rule, however, as you may know – I believe rules are made to be broken, and do not really have a place when it comes to matters of the heart.
1) Ask your date if they’re interested in sharing before ordering anything. Sharing can be fun, flirtatious, sensual or just a simple way to break the ice.
2) If you’re getting the “vibe” and feel like being playful – feed your date a bite off your plate. If done casually and naturally, this can be a huge turn-on.
First Date Kiss – To Have or Not to Have?
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again (thanks for the quote Ferris Bueller) – I do not believe in “rules” when it comes to dating and relationships. Kissing is a wonderful and beautiful thing, and a great way to determine whether physical chemistry exists. If the moment is right, and it feels good, do it. If you prefer to wait until you know the person better, then wait. When it comes to being physical, it should always be about your comfort level.