You’re a woman. You’ve gone on a date with a man. You like him. You had a good time. He paid for the date – you want to thank him…again. It’s the day after the date. Is it OK for you to message him? As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, men like to chase. Even progressive, modern men. Even if they don’t realize it. So, my preference is to let him chase. Many women can find this difficult because they are not in control of the outcome.
You’re a man. You’ve gone on a date with a woman. You like her but you’re not sure if she likes you. You want to ask her out again. How long should you “wait” to do so?
OK, now let’s say you are either a man or a woman. You’ve decided to ask for a second date. Should you do so by telephone, text, BBM or e-mail?
While I am, admittedly, the worst phone person ever (i.e. I hate talking on the phone), I am a sucker for tradition. I think there is something to be said for picking up the phone and asking for a date the old-fashioned way, especially with all of the other options available. It shows interest and requires a slight effort – on both parts.